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What You Can Expect

The minute Dr. Turndorf steps on your stage, your audience will feel mesmerized by her uplifting, warm, entertaining, and life changing message. 

As one participant recently said: 

"It is difficult to describe the experience of hearing Dr. Turndorf live. At its peak moments, it feels exhilarating and freeing. Like finding a door or portal in your own backyard. Something that I would have never thought was possible in ordinary day to day life. I also feel pride in myself simultaneously for having the strength to go forward and change, and assist others in their growth. I feel hopeful for my increasing ability to handle and respond to difficult situations that arise between me and my wife, brother, sister, mother, father and even the 'bogey men' of death and suffering. I feel empowered and also feel vulnerable. Out of my experience with Dr. Turndorf grows love and greater compassion. Above all, I am able to speak without fear and I have learned to describe with greater clarity what it is that goes on 'inside'. The 'inside', after all, is not so inside when I realized that we are experiencing ourselves so profoundly similarly." Tim S.

About Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love)

Known to millions as "Dr. Love," radio and television personality Dr. Jamie Turndorf has been delighting audiences for three decades with her engaging blend of professional expertise and spicy humor. Her success is largely due to her remarkable ability to turn clinical psychobabble into entertaining and easy-to-understand concepts that transform lives. She has authored several books on resolving relationship conflicts with partners, friends, family members and children. Hay House is publishing her latest two books, Kiss Your Fights Good-bye: Dr. Love’s 10 Simple Steps to Cooling Conflict and Rekindling Your Connection (January 2014) and Love Never Dies: How to Reconnect and Make Peace with the Deceased (August 2014), introducing her new grief therapy method that combines her conflict resolution method with after death communication. Dr. Turndorf’s radio show “Ask Dr. Love’ is currently broadcast in 80 countries worldwide. She has been an invited expert on numerous television networks such as CBS, VH1, WebMD, and MSNBC. Most recently, CNN has been featuring her as the resident authority on relationship advice and human behavior.

Video Clips

Sizzle reel:

Most Requested Topics

How to Not Get Taken on a Guilt Trip. Her article on this topic in "Psychology Today" yielded 5K Likes within 24 hours.

How Stripping Solves Relationship Conflicts!

How to Listen for Love

Dr. Love's 10 Secrets to Lasting Love

How to Make Long Distance Love Go the Distance

The Anatomy of Compatibility

What is Love?

Why Love Isn't Enough to Keep Love Alive

Additional Topics


From First Kiss to Relationship Bliss: Dr. Love’s 7 Secrets for Lasting Love

Are You Dating Mr. or Ms. Right (Or Only Mr. or Ms. Right Now?) How to Use Dr. Love’s Method for Measuring Compatibility Before You Make the Lover’s Leap

Does Your Frog Have too Many Warts? Discover how to “qualify” a prospective partner before you part with your heart

Is Your Date an Inmate? How to Spot Online Fakes, Freaks and Frauds

Are You His Soulmate or His Playmate? How to Tell if a Man is Relationship Material BEFORE He Breaks Your Heart

How to Create-a-Mate using Dr. Love's Create-a-Mate Guide to Draw Your Ideal Mate to You

Are You Ready For Love? How to Identify Old Scars that May Be Keeping Love Away


Mishandled anger and unresolved conflict is the no. 1 cause of divorce and break ups. Dr. Turndorf’s conflict to connection methods guide audiences to create a lifetime of lasting love.

How Stripping Solves Relationship Conflicts!

Don’t Chop Off His Head, Make Peace Instead!

Go from Conflict to Connection Using Dr. Love’s Simple 7-Step Method

Dr. Love’s Prescription for Lasting Love: From Conflict to Connection in 7 Simple Steps

Why Old Scars From Childhood Cause Chronic Relationship Fighting and How to Set Yourself Free

Help! I Think I’ve Married My Mother! How Unresolved Old Scars From Childhood Lead us to Wrong Partners…And How to Break Free of This Pattern

Are You a Fighting Junkie? Find Out Why So Many Couples Are Married to Fighting…And How to Escape this Relationship Dance of Death

How To Resolve Your Toughest Relationship Beefs Using Dr. Love’s Simple 7-Step Conflict to Connection Plan

Why HEATED Fighting Ruins Relationships: Dr. Love's “Relationship Climate Control” Techniques that Turn Down the Heat and Turn Up the Flames of Love

The Chemistry of Conflict: The Hidden Biochemical Imbalance that Causes Divorce and Domestic Violence…Why Kissing Off HEATED Arguing is the Cure

Why Keeping Cool is Your No. 1 Relationship Rule: How Heated Fighting Triggers a Biochemical Imbalance that Causes Divorce and Domestic Violence

Kiss Your Conflicts Goodbye Using Dr. Love’s Simple Conflict to Connection Cure

Love Heals All Wounds: How To Use Your Relationship To Heal Your Mutual Old Scars

How to Stop Husband Withdrawal, the No. 1 Cause of Marital Conflict, Divorce and Domestic Violence

Why Relationship Fighting Kills: The Link Between Chronic Conflict, Disease and Premature Death

On the Road to Resolution, Listening is the Superhighway! How to Use Your Ears to Resolve Almost Any Conflict

How to Listen Your Way to Relationship Harmony

The Largest Erogenous Zone on a Man's Body is Between His...EARS: Guys, How to Listen Up for More Batters Up!

Don’t Be an Unsuspecting Schulb and Use Honesty Like a Club: Why Keeping it “Real” Can Really Ruin Relationships

The Brain Drain: Why the Mind is Relationship Enemy No. 1

How to Train Your Brain to Fight for You Not Against You

The Battle of the Bulge: How to “Read Between the Sheets” to End Your Sex Wars

Eatin Ain’t Cheatin?: How to Cheatproof Your Relationship Using Dr. Love’s Simple 5-Step Plan

Discover How “Relationship Essential Nutrients” Can Create a Relationship that Survives and Thrives

If You Don’t Give Her Enough Emotional Company, She May Look Elsewhere for Humpty Dumpty: Dr. Love’s 5-Step Method for Heading off Infidelity.


Make Up Don’t Break Up: How to Get Your Ex-Back Using Dr. Love’s 5 Step Reconciliation Method

Why Raising Your Personal Net Worth is the Secret to Elevating Your Level of Attractiveness

Were You Both Compatible?

Why Didn't it Work out With Your Ex? 

BEYOND THE COUPLE: How to go from tussle to truce with friends, family and colleagues

Is Your Mother-in-Law a Real Mother? How to Bury the Ax with the Old Battle Ax…and Win Points with Your Partner too!

How To Enter Through Another Person’s Door…But Have Him/Her Leave Through Yours: The Fine Art of Personal Persuasion

How Listening Helps You to Resolve 90% of Your Conflicts with Friends, Family and Colleagues  

If You’re on the Skids with Your Kids: How to Resolve Conflicts and Communicate Effectively with Your Children


Create-a-Mate: To Define Your Ideal Partner and Draw Him/Her to You

Why Didn't It Work Out With Your Ex: Relationship Post Mortem to Identify What Went Wrong and Not Repeat the Same Mistakes 

Did Your Ex Have Fatal Flaws? Was the relationship doomed due to his/her baggage?

Critical Questions to Ask Before You Get Close

How to Know if You're Compatible

Is He/She Ready for Love? How to Identify Relationship Fatal Flaws Before You Give Your Heart 

RECONNECTING AND MAKING PEACE WITH THE DECEASED: Based Upon Dr. Turndorf’s upcoming book, Love Never Dies: How to Reconnect and Make Peace with the Deceased, to be published by Hay House, August 26, 2014.

Warning: What We’ve Been Told About the Afterlife is DEAD Wrong!

Heaven is a State Not a Place: You Don’t Need to Wait Until You Die to Reconnect with Loved Ones in Spirit

Relationships Do Not End in Death! It’s Never too Late to Reconnect and Make Peace with the Deceased

How to Dialogue with the Departed and Make Peace with the Deceased

Loved Ones in Spirit are Knocking on Your Door…How to Reconnect with Loved Ones in Spirit

Beyond Western Grief Therapy: From Saying Goodbye to Saying Hello!

More Praise:

"Your knowledge is impressive. Audiences enjoy you for the same reasons I do. You are eloquent, informative, entertaining, captivating and humorous. You make people feel comfortable with serious concepts. Anyone who is fortunate enough to hear you speak will go away from the experience feeling informed, uplifted, and motivated to be the best he or she can be."
-- Dr. Laura Corio, M.D. Mt Sinai Medical Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecolgy"

"Your talk was a huge success. People are still talking about it."
-- NY Bar Association

“As Director of the Center for the Advancement of Group Studies, I have had numerous opportunities to appreciate your public speaking ability.

Your audiences are enthralled by your unique style, which is a blend of competence, articulateness, conciseness, sensitivity and wit.

When it comes to questions and answers, you are deft at translating theoretical material into language that is accessible to the layperson, and you do this in an entertaining and oftentimes hilarious manner.

I welcome the next opportunity to hear you speak!” --Dr. Louis R. Ormont Founder of Modern Group Psychoanalysis, Director of Center for the Advancement of Group Studies

"You're a wonderful speaker who captivates the audience with great humor and candor and holds their attention while covering very difficult topics. You have a rare gift of being able to put people at ease with very difficult topics. You bring out the best in those you touch!"
-- Keith Tamlyn, Pastor, New Hackensack Reformed Church, Wappingers Falls, NY

"I have found Dr. Turndorf to be warm, vivacious, empathic, humorous, caring and supportive, with a succinct ability to give good, accurate advice with specific examples that people can relate to, and to do it with caring, respect and humor. I feel fortunate to know her, as does anyone who has the privilege of hearing her speak."--Linnda Durre, Ph.D. Former Host, "Ask the Family Therapist,” on America’s Health Network

"You are a lot of fun. One of the best guests we've ever had. I want you back!"-- Natasha Curry, HLN's Weekend Express

"Dr. Turndorf knows the buttons to hit. Wow. She grabs the audience's attention."-- Bill Maine, Operations Manager, WDUN, Atlanta

"Luckily we have you to help us. Thank you for being such a wonderful speaker and guest!"-- Diane Ray, Hay House Radio, Network Manager

"She's funny. She's funnier than you, Tracy. I love her voice! She could read the phone book and I'd have to leave the room. Man I love her. She's the best guest I've ever had. We're going to have you on every week!"
-- 700 WLW, Cincinnati. Eddie and Tracy Show syndicated in 50 markets!

"You are a riot. You certainly deliver. Now I know why you're so popular."
-- Bonnie D. Graham, Host, Radio Red


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