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Thu, 05/07/2020

The Coronavirus (COVID-19) has triggered what I call a Global PTSD Pandemic. In this blog, Dr. Turndorf reveals the little known NIH research that proves a specific nutritional deficiency causes PTSD and that supplementing with this nutrient reverses it. Read more

Tue, 04/14/2020

I always look for the upside to every downturn in my life.

Then it hit me: There is an overlooked upside to the mandatory self-isolation.

Now that you're not rushing every minute, you can truly open your eyes, perhaps for the first time in your life, and see the signs of spirit that you've been missing.

For example, the other day I was doing a Zoom session with my beloved coach, Candi.

Jean, my... Read More

Thu, 04/02/2020

Most of the world is trembling under a deathly fear of contracting the COVID-19 virus.

When we peel back the psychological onion layers of fear, we uncover the universal fear of death.

When my beloved husband of nearly 30 years, Emile Jean Pin (world-renowned former Jesuit priest who the Dalai Lama named as one of the 50 men of all time who was one with God) left his body from a bee sting, he began proving his presence through... Read More

Mon, 03/30/2020

Most of the world is trembling under a deathly fear of contracting the COVID-19 virus.

Given the mandatory and voluntary self-quarantining and social distancing that's happening worldwide, families are trapped in closed quarters. Result: Fights with those we love most are much more likely to occur.

Fighting drastically lowers immune function, so we need to nip your fights in the bud.

Plus, relationships are like rubber... Read More

Mon, 06/17/2019

But the road to love is paved with many potholes.

Emotional and physical neglect and abuse during childhood...

The recreation of old traumas... Read More

Mon, 06/18/2018

Dr. Jamie Turndorf — also known as Dr. Love — uses psychotherapy to help her followers and clients heal childhood trauma and form stronger, less contentious relationships. But in the decade since her husband’s unexpected death in 2006, Jamie has started to explore a new kind of interpersonal... Read More

Thu, 12/29/2016

If you have lost a loved one, I bet you’re dreading the New Year…

Believe me, I know how feel.

Right after my beloved Jean left his body, a dreadful image kept appearing in my mind.

It was the image of my future, which I saw as a long black road unspooling to the horizon. The road was surrounded by empty desert on all sides.... Read More

Thu, 12/22/2016

If you’re grieving the bodily loss of a loved one, I know how hard the holidays can be.  

Holidays are the time we slow down and take a trip down memory lane.
In no time, we fall into a pit of sadness remembering those we have “lost.” 
Today, I want to... Read More

Sun, 12/11/2016

Contrary to popular belief, time doesn’t heal grief. I’ll say it again. Time doesn’t heal grief.

 In fact, I know that time actually adds salt to the wound.

 Why do I say this? Because we aren’t meant to be separated from those we love. And, the longer we go without connecting to those we love, the worse we feel, and the worse our... Read More

Wed, 11/23/2016

Do you believe that reconnecting with loved ones in spirit is the same as opening the door to the devil?

If you said, “yes,” then I’m guessing you were raised in the Christian faith…

But, I bet you didn’t know that the Bible actually tells us that we should reconnect with those in spirit.

... Read More