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... look at whether he is using what I call Secret Warfare Fight Traps In my book, Till Death Do Us Part (Unless I Kill You First), I coined the expression Fight Traps to describe the faulty, dysfunctional fighting tactics that most ...

Column - jamie - 04/03/2012 - 8:33pm - 1 comment

I Don't Want to Fight All the Time

... Avoidance, Excessive Anger, Destructive Patterns, Fight Traps, Yelling) ...

Column - jamie - 03/27/2012 - 8:03pm - 0 comments

Very Troubled

... Your girlfriend is caught in what I call "Fight Traps," or dysfunctional fighting tactics that ruin relationships. Her Fight Traps are: Bringing Up Ancient History and Character Assasination. ...

Column - Anonymous - 03/27/2012 - 8:06pm - 1 comment

How Can I Make Sure our Love Lasts Forever?

... Proper communication also includes eliminating what I call Fight Traps, which are dysfunctional fighting tactics that fuel the fire and cause more anger and fighting. Fight Traps are grouped into two categories: open warfare and secret warfare. ...

Column - Anonymous - 03/27/2012 - 8:07pm - 0 comments

We Need to Get Past This

... is that you are both locked into what I call Open Warfare Fight Traps. You both must agree that name-calling and insults are not allowed ... Relationships (Fight Traps, Walking Away) ...

Column - Anonymous - 03/27/2012 - 2:03pm - 0 comments

Wondering How to Rebuild Your Relationship

... Avoidance, Abuse (Verbal), Difficult Patterns, Fight Traps, Impulsivity) ...

Column - Anonymous - 04/03/2012 - 2:28pm - 0 comments

Sweeping Your Problems under the Rug

... resolution. When angry, most people engage in what I call Fight Traps, which are faulty, dysfunctional fighting tactics that throw oil on ... blaming, and guilt tripping are just a few of the many Fight Traps. If you come at someone in an attacking way, the other person ...

Column - Anonymous - 09/04/2009 - 8:59pm - 1 comment

He Refuses to Address Your Issues