May 4, 2013
Hi Dr. Love, My husband and I have been together for 6 years, and only married for two months. We've always had a passionate sex life, but lately my husband is expressing that he's unhappy with the "vanilla" sex we're having. It's a point of contingency that's causing a rift in our sex life. He really wants to have someone else have sex with me while he watches. I'm a rather shy person, and while in the past I've participated in other group sex experiences (threesome, foursome), I can't wrap my...
May 4, 2013
Hello Dr. Love, I'm coming to you in desperation. First and foremost, I love your work. You are extremely knowledgable and a friend suggested your work to me a while back. But now I feel like I need some serious insight. Or perhaps a wakeup call. I really hope you can guide me in the right direction. I've known this girl for a while now. We met about a year ago. Without putting her on a pedastal, she is extremely driven, beautiful inside and out, "wife material" if you may. Basically everything...
Apr 29, 2013
Dear Dr. Love, I hope that you will take the time to read my story and provide me with feedback. I really don't know what to do. I am a 36 year old single mother. I have a loving relationship with Gary, the father of my 2 year old son, Justin. We have been intimately involved for four years. When I first initiated a relationship with Gary, I was living with a man named Mitchell and Gary was involved with a woman named Cheryl. It was understood that we were each already involved in serious...
Apr 9, 2013
Dear Dr. Love: I feel like I am different than many people on your column, because I rarely can get dates. I am somewhat picky but often like several people in one year. I am 37 and have spent most of the last 15 years alone. I don't know what's wrong, I think I am fairly pretty, definitely cute, a little overweight. I know also that in my childhood my father left for a very pretty woman, and my mom and I were left alone. Since she looked like me, and I thought the other woman was prettier,...
Apr 9, 2013
I am 36 years old & happily married. Happily - for 9 years (the trustMutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose. More comprehensively trust defined as "the willingness of a party (trustor) to be vulnerable to the...(Click for full definition.) & lust is all there) and I LOVE having sex with my husband. Yet I have never had an orgasm, by myself or with a partner. Believe me, I have tried everything. I have...
Apr 9, 2013
I met this girl on a dating site, we exchanged numbers and really got to know each other. After a week of talking we decided to go on a date, a couple of days before the date she mentioned a guy she was talking to for 3 months decided to talk to her again (he stopped talking to her after the first time they had sex). We ended up going on a date, hit it off really well, then ended up at my place, we had sex, towards the end she felt bad about it, we talked and everything seemed fine. A couple of...
Apr 1, 2013
to get my story to make sense i need to tell you from A- Z so here it goes. my boy friend and i met when i was 18 at a gym. we started the relationship a month after meeting for 3 times. i understand the fact that we rush things without being friends first especially when clearly i wasnt over my ex. i got excited because i believed that he was the one because he appeared just after i broke up with my ex.. theres no word to explain but yeah i was pretty moved by his actions. after days of being...
Jan 27, 2013
Hello Dr. Love I'm in a pretty tough situation and not sure how to work through it. I love my girlfriend - she is my best friend and when we are together there is nothing we can't handle with a smile. However, after meeting in college as friends (for about a year or two), eventually falling in love, and spending almost two more years living happily together, traveling around the world for grad school.. life has thrown us a curve ball and we had to become long distance for work. Its been...
Jan 7, 2013
Dear Dr. Love, Would realy like your advice on a subject that is realy bothering me and making me feel so down and confused lately. I am a 45 year old man. My girlfriend is also 45. We been dating for 8 months, and she never perforned oral sex on me altough i have done it numerous times to her. But besides the fact that she never perforned oral sex, she rarely touches my genital parts and never kisses me anywhere beside on the mouth. I kiss her and caress her...
Dec 11, 2012
I have been reading your advice column now for some time and I think you give excellent advice. Now I'm hoping you can help me out with a problem I am having now. It's kind of a strange one compared to other ones your readers ask you. While most of them seek advice on how to restore relationships and their love life I am asking you on ways to avoid them. I am a 23 year old male who has had two girlfriends in in my past. My first relationship lasted 3years and ended...