May 4, 2013
Hello Dr. Love, I'm coming to you in desperation. First and foremost, I love your work. You are extremely knowledgable and a friend suggested your work to me a while back. But now I feel like I need some serious insight. Or perhaps a wakeup call. I really hope you can guide me in the right direction. I've known this girl for a while now. We met about a year ago. Without putting her on a pedastal, she is extremely driven, beautiful inside and out, "wife material" if you may. Basically everything...
Mar 12, 2013
hello i just wanted to get advice regarding my relationship. i was the rebound girl. he had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship when he started dating me. we dated for a couple of weeks until he asked me to make it official. me being blinded and loving the feeling of having someone said yes even though i was unsure. he kept on talking about her when he was with me and then he still goes out with her, only the 2 of them when he was seeing me and that time i thought it was ok because...
Jan 7, 2013
Dear Dr. Love, Would realy like your advice on a subject that is realy bothering me and making me feel so down and confused lately. I am a 45 year old man. My girlfriend is also 45. We been dating for 8 months, and she never perforned oral sex on me altough i have done it numerous times to her. But besides the fact that she never perforned oral sex, she rarely touches my genital parts and never kisses me anywhere beside on the mouth. I kiss her and caress her...
Dec 11, 2012
I have been reading your advice column now for some time and I think you give excellent advice. Now I'm hoping you can help me out with a problem I am having now. It's kind of a strange one compared to other ones your readers ask you. While most of them seek advice on how to restore relationships and their love life I am asking you on ways to avoid them. I am a 23 year old male who has had two girlfriends in in my past. My first relationship lasted 3years and ended...
Dec 11, 2012
Lately I've been assuming that my over 1 year relationship with my boyfriend has been great. He was in previous marriage 9 years ago that burned him bad, now i am thinking that he is healing. He is taking me to Tx to see his family for 2 weeks with his 3 kids. I have never been married and have no kids - therefore I am assuming that this kind of trip means that there is more than a serious relationship. fter telling him that I loved him a few weeks ago he never reciprocated. I found out in a e-...
Sep 25, 2012
I know im still young but it doesnt make it any easier.And it still hurts the same.(15 years) my boyfriend broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago the day after our 6 month aniversary. It happened so suddenly i didnt see it coming. I've been going through all the stages. Denial, anger, depressionA psychiatric disorder characterized by an inability to concentrate, insomnia, loss of appetite, anhedonia (chronic inability to perceive pleasure), feelings of extreme sadness, guilt, helplessness...(...
Aug 7, 2012
Dear Dr. Jamie, I was in a relationship two years ago, I truly loved the girl -i don't know she loved me back or not but it was obvious for anyone she wanted me- we had so many differences and she had many concerns and I had as well but I ignored them. at the end it didnt work out. I tried to get back many times but everytime it ended up worse than the one before (I was extremely needy and dependant which is something she doesnt appreciate) we lost contact for a year and a half now. both...
Jul 23, 2012
Hi, Are the fireworks of love sustainable? My ex girlfriend thinks the 'explosively, massively mental' feelings we have when we are together cannot last. (Hence we have split up). If it is true love will it last? Thanks Andy
Jul 17, 2012
Met a guy 1.4 yrs ago. Had the usual 4 month chemistry attachment where he chased me until I caught him. Then he blew hot and cold. Goes back to ex-gf periodically. Toxic relationship. When he's with me, he never wants to leave me. When he leaves me, he never comes back. Keeps contact mostly thru emails/FB. Hadn't seen him in 3 mos. but went on date last week where he says that he feels a great connection with me that he doesn't feel with others. That the fact that we are still...
Jul 17, 2012
Hi, i was wondering if you could give me some advice about what to do aboout my parents and my boyfriend. my boyfriend Hunter and i have been dating for 7 months now. we have been through a lot together, we really do love each other and we have been best friends for awhile before we started dating. i do admit sometimes we have huge argumentsArguments or disputes are inevitable in all intimate relationships. How a couple handles these conflicts will determine whether their relationship is...