Apr 1, 2013
So my ex and i were together for 3 years, and we lived together for 2 years and 3 months b4 he broke up with me we were having problems, i wasnt patient, andi had attitude problems, and he grew tired of it, so he moved out and said he needed space and he said he was confused about everything. couple days b4 he broke up with me i found out he started going out with this girl from work and 1 week after we broke up he said he started talkn to someone but said we are just hanging out and he...
Mar 5, 2013
Dear Dr. Love, I am turning to you because I have no one else to talk to. I have been divorced for 7 months. I have come to realize that much of my unhappiness was my own fault due to many of my problems. I have lately tried to work things out with my ex. We have a 9 year old son together. Things are going well. My problem is with my family - they have forbidden me to go back to this person. I am 37 yrs. old - yet I am araid of what my family will say. However - I feel that I should...
Jan 15, 2013
Hi Doctor Love, I am sorry to bother you with what might seem a petty problem but I am just really confused by this guys behaviour and it is really messing with my mind! I am 30 years old and just recenlty back in the dating game after a bad break up 5 years ago that shattered my confidence.. I met a guy on a nightout that was totally keen and told me that he was so glad to meet me and we completely hit it off, but he lives in another town so told me he would come back to vist me in...
Nov 11, 2012
I'm afraid I need some advice. I am 22 and engaged to a man that I don't trustMutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose. More comprehensively trust defined as "the willingness of a party (trustor) to be vulnerable to the...(Click for full definition.). In the past year he has been arrested, fired, actually there has been too much trouble to mention. He isn't the same person that I fell in love with. Our main problem is that he lies to...
Nov 11, 2012
Dear Dr. Love, I'm 43 year-old male who's been looking for a new female companion. It's been 2 year since my last relationship and I feel over that now. I met a woman about a month ago and see here everyday on her terms. I don't get her phone #, she says she lives with here aunt on an estate. I know of another exboyfriend who lives in the same town as this presumed aunt. I pick her up and drop her off each day, at a local spot in town. I feel she lives with this ex friend because I know...
Nov 11, 2012
I am so confused. My boyfriend of 4 years has lied to me about an internet relationship that began over 4 months ago. He says that he has turned to the internet becaue he has limited friends and I am not around. He has dangled the'carrot' of living together as an option to marriage since he has two more years of school and lives over 300 miles away . I became aware of this relationship after he started talking about his ' e-mail buddy' and started knocking the concept of marriage. He said...
Jul 3, 2012
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years and have been talking about marriage. He is my best friend and up until recently we had very few problems as a couple. My boyfriend and I were raised in two completely different families and our value systems are not the same, but we have been working on it. He joined my faith and slowed down his drinking so that he could be with me. I opened up to his values and agreed to give up much of my free time to join him at the softball...
May 15, 2012
Hi Dr Love, So my ex and I broke up because I couldn't take him calling me names or being mean or accusing me of cheating anymore. We both calmed down later and agreed to not get back together until all the hard stuff we had to get through was over like SATs and APs and stuff. During our relationship he always was a very jealous person and was very sensitive to cheating. When we broke up, he thought and I thought too we would get back together in the future and we were both going to be...
Apr 17, 2012
I've known my Ex for years. Our parents went to school together, and since the first day we met, we immediately connected. Also, he only lives a few houses down from me, which made it easier for both of us. I'm only 16 at the moment, and i know there are people out there that say you can't experience love and heartbreak at such a young age. But honestly, it kills me inside as i sit and think about things every night, and as i'm writing this! We are both more or less the same age, i'm exactly...
Apr 17, 2012
Ok Me and my girlfriend has been together for 2 years now but at the beginning of our relationship I always told her that the only way for us to make it last is to be 100% honest. And we told each other about our past sex partners and she told me she only had sex with 1 guy in her hometown. But today her family put her on blast about all of the times she used to skip school and do things with her friends. So I asked her about it and long story short she told me she had sex with 8 different guys...