Apr 1, 2013
Physical Abuse
to get my story to make sense i need to tell you from A- Z so here it goes. my boy friend and i met when i was 18 at a gym. we started the relationship a month after meeting for 3 times. i understand the fact that we rush things without being friends first especially when clearly i wasnt over my ex. i got excited because i believed that he was the one because he appeared just after i broke up with my ex.. theres no word to explain but yeah i was pretty moved by his actions. after days of being...
May 22, 2012
Physical Abuse
*I have been with my Bf for 5 yrs he is 31 & I'm 25...When we first met it
took him 8 months to have sex with me. then after that we did it maybe 5
times a month if that.. Now all these yrs later and it's 1-3 times a month...
I feel like he has never really had a sex drive but now I just feel like he's
not longer attraced to me . When we do have sex it's me asking for it and
it's always him on top and lasts only a few min. I know alot of it has to do
with the way i feel about myself...
Mar 24, 2012
Physical Abuse
Hi, Dr. Love
I'm 16 and he's 18. He lives in Canada and I live in Boston. We met on a cruise and we've been dating for over a year.
My boyfriend calls me names constantly. Sometimes, he says it as a joke at first, and when I tell him "I won't tolerate you disrespecting me." and I hang up the skype call and ignore a few of the other ones, (We're long distance) and then I finally answer after several calls, he always calls me dumb and a dumbass for not answering the calls and that he was joking...
Mar 23, 2012
Physical Abuse
Hi, I am a 28 year old married woman. When I was 8-9 years old, our servant took me to a corner room saying we will play a game. He made me lay down, removed my shorts and rubbed his penis against my vagina for 5-10min. I do not remember what else he did but there used to be wetness. He repeated this act 4-5 times. I did not feel any pain and no blood. I would like to know if there is any possibility of penetrating his penis without causing pain and no blood at that age? I really want to know...
Feb 22, 2012
Physical Abuse
I've been with my ex since high school. We were best friends and our relationship has been off and on. It's been mainly off and on because of him; he can't let go of the sexual abuseSexual abuse, also referred to as molestation, is the forcing of undesired sexual behavior by one person upon another. When that force is immediate, of short duration, or infrequent, it is called...(Click for full definition.) that happened in his past. He's forever thinking that he hurts me when I tell him that he...
Dec 24, 2011
Physical Abuse
I have a girlfriend and we've been together for about 6 months. She's great and we're into each other very much, so a few weeks ago we decided we wanted to have sex (she's a virgin). We usually take our time with foreplay, I mean lots of kissing and touching, I enjoy exploring her body. But when it came to the actual penetration, I just couldn't get my penis inside her vagina and she says it hurts very much. I'm an average guy in that area, so I don't think size is...
Nov 5, 2010
Physical Abuse
I have been through a very mentally and physically abusive relationship. He said he loved me, asked me to marry him and then he, sweet kind loving man, changed to Dr. Jeckle and Mr. Hyde. He was scary; he had such a bad temper and would have road rage every time we went somewhere in the car, get out and fight with people calling them all kinds of names. I would leave his place, then feel bad and call him and he would never answer, so I went to his house he wouldn't answer the...
Jan 17, 2005
Physical Abuse
I have been with my boyfriend 2 yrs in April and most of the time we are arguing. I think it's something I'm doing wrong. I don't think I'm treating him right well.
I don't know what to think really. He says that I do alot of things wrong but the problem is I really try my best I don't think I am getting anywhere no matter what I do it's always wrong. Please help me give me some advice.
I think maybe it might be that we are not meant for each other but I hope that 's not true. Thank you...
Sep 26, 2004
Physical Abuse
Dearest Dr. Love,
I must thank you with all my heart for your precious help and for the concern you have for all those who need advice. I always read your column and I truly think that every single advice you give is brilliant and very helpful. Thank you kindly.
I hope you can help me with this problem I've had probably ever since I was in my mother 's womb! It's about my very low self-esteem. . . It kills me to notice how low it is, and it saddens me every time I have negative thoughts...
Aug 30, 2004
Physical Abuse
My husband and I have been together for almost seven years and married for 4 years. We both have been married before and have children from those marriages and one together, a 14 month old baby.
We met from a dating service. I moved from Canada to the US for a job promotion but shortly after being here I had to return home because I was having difficulty walking. I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. Right before I went back home because is when my husband and I met not face to face,...
