Win Your Ex Back Step 4: Raising Your Personal Net Worth
September 27, 2012
Get Your Ex Back
I know how you feel, and that your break up has undoubtedly left you with many scars. Before approaching or trying to reconcile any further with your ex, you need to heal yourself first.
Yes, this is yet another step where you don’t actually contact your ex nor do much of anything that involves him or her. But at this point you should welcome that, because through this program you’ve come to realize that before you take any action toward your ex, the process of reconciliation requires a number of vital preparation steps.
This program is not unlike how athletes or marital artists train. In martial arts especially, building up mental and even spiritual muscle is as important, if not more so, than the building up of physical muscle. Through visualization exercises, a karate expert learns how to see his hand already as having gone through the block just as his hand is actually hitting it. But prior to achieving this skill, he must purify his mind and rid it of all distractions so that it is capable of that kind of trick of concentration.
So, like a ninja, purification of mind is your concern at this point. A mind riddled with pain and low self-worth and distracted from its goal by passions and jealousies is only going lose focus and miss the mark. It is a slave to its own negative fears which are, more often than not, mostly imaginary.
This kind of mind is unpredictable and driven by passions. When you’re trying to reconcile and revive a relationship, you don’t need any loose cannons on your side, or worse, in your head and heart.
Remember what your goal is: you are trying to rekindle the love that you once had. You’re not trying to force anything to happen that did not already happen, or trying to create feelings that never were. But something has gotten in the way, and your ex is either no longer attracted to you or blocking those feelings for some reason.
This is why one of the main keys to getting your ex back is simply reviving your ex’s attraction to you. And you are far more attractive when you are confident and together and feel good about yourself. But you’ve been damaged by the breakup and your self-esteem is wrecked. That is why I call this stage of my program “Licking Your Wounds," because now you must free your mind as well as heal your soul.
In earlier steps I talked about the Relationship Essential Nutrients that people must give to the relationship and to each other. Now you must focus on providing yourself with the Personal Essential Nutrients that you need and which will raise your Personal Net Worth. Doing this will increase your strength, confidence, and energy on all levels, and make you interesting and attractive again.
As it is with nutrients that feed the body, there are many different kinds of Personal Essential Nutrients that feed one’s psyche and build your self-esteem. This program takes the psychobabble out of it and breaks them all down into easy to digest terms. Rebuilding yourself now is also an effort that must be pursued on all fronts: psychological, physical, and even spiritual (if you’re so inclined): you must heal yourself in body, mind, heart, and soul.
I show you how to feed yourself these Personal Essential Nutrients by giving you specific tips, exercises, diet recommendations, and activities so you can put together a personalized program that helps you rebuild your Personal Net Worth. Only when your self-esteem is restored will you be able to see the brick break before you even touch it.
For a complete explanation of Personal Essential Nutrients and how to build your Personal Net Worth, read the third chapter of Make Up don't Break Up: Dr. Love's 5-Step Plan for Reconcling With Your Ex.
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