Win Your Ex Back: Introduction
October 1, 2012
Get Your Ex Back
Let's face it. You're here because your relationship is on the rocks, and you're at the point where you just don't know what to do to fix it. In this series of articles, I will show you step-by-step how to get your ex back the smart way using my proven psychological principles and techniques. Before we get into the individual steps, in this introduction we go over some preliminary things you need to consider and to do first.
Obviously, you wouldn't be reading this if you weren't looking for some advice, and you should give yourself credit for taking this first step in reaching out for guidance. I know the pain you're in and how difficult and bewildering your situation is. I see it every day in my practice working with real couples who are trying to repair their marriage or relationship, so I know how much courage is required to take this first step. The best way to start this journey is to infuse it with some positive energy by congratulating yourself for having this courage and realizing that you've come to the right place for answers.
Now, I know it seems counterintuitive to let go when you're drowning; but, in fact, surrendering and asking for help is actually just the thing you need to do, which is why you're here looking for help. The first thing you need to do is fully accept that because this is such an emotionally charged situation, you just can't see things clearly and really don't know how to proceed. As the old saying goes, there's no greater fool than a fool in love. In my thrity years experience as a therapist I have seen that people will do anything to get their loved one back.
Unfortunately, people who are heartbroken do all the wrong things. I can't count how many times I've seen relationships that could have been reconciled wrecked by the stupid, desperate and even cruel things that people do when they are suffering the longings of love. So you need to let go of any previous notions you may have about how to get your ex back.
Then you need to accept that what you need, and in fact what you’re looking for right now, is professional guidance and a clear cut plan. You need a coach to show you the ropes, someone who knows the pitfalls and potholes; someone who has been there before and has guided many thousands of people through the maze countless times before; someone who has a proven A-Z relationship rescue program that works. And someone to cheer you on when the going gets rough.
You also need to accept that there is no magic formula or shortcuts for getting your ex back immediately with a few simple words or tricks. You're going to have to be patient and determined and follow my program through every step. The good news is that healing a broken relationship is a process that I can guide you through thanks to my decades of experience helping thousands of other people do the same.
Now, I can’t promise you that you are definitely going to succeed. I have seen many “get your ex back” books and so-called systems being sold these days that on the surface appear to guarantee your success, but when you read the fine print, what they're offering is just a purchase guarantee, a standard return policy, not a performance guarantee (if you're not happy, they’ll refund your money). Think about it and you'll realize that no one can guarantee performance in a situation like this. Don’t be fooled by empty promises made by people who are just selling you what you want to hear when you're down and out.
Unlike others who will sell you shallow quick fix methods, I’m not going to play games with your heart and make promises I can’t keep. What I will promise you is to teach you the right way to go about reconciling a relationship, and this way is based upon proven psychological principles and my own tested and proven methods. I promise that doing things the right way will dramatically increase your chances of getting your ex back. I can promise you that wth over thirty years of clinical practice working directly with couples, I have identified every major pothole in your path and can steer you around all of them. And, I can promise you that my way IS the demonstrated scientific way that, when followed thoroughly, will give you the greatest chances of success while simultaneously improving all the relationships in your life.
In this series of articles, I will briefly outline my entire program for you. Of course, I can only go so deep, but they will give you an overview of all the major steps in my method so you can realize how much sense my program makes. I am giving this information away because my life’s mission has always been to help people find lasting love, and I want you to succeed.
To Your Success...!
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