Get Your Ex Back
Oct 2, 2012
Following a breakup, there's almost always a possibility of salvaging and healing the relationship. No matter what might have happened or who might have initiated the breakup, it's not only normal, but psychologically healthy, for both parties to experience grief and remorse and a longing to get back what they've lost. The problem that confronts anyone trying to repair a relationsnhip is trying to figure out what to do differently so as to not end up repeating the same old patterns that lead to...
Oct 1, 2012
Let's face it. You're here because your relationship is on the rocks, and you're at the point where you just don't know what to do to fix it. In this series of articles, I will show you step-by-step how to get your ex back the smart way using my proven psychological principles and techniques. Before we get into the individual steps, in this introduction we go over some preliminary things you need to consider and to do first. Congratulate Yourself Obviously, you wouldn't be reading this if you...
Sep 30, 2012
The conflict in your relationship has reached the point of boiling over, even to the point of breaking up. You want to try again, but you're afraid you'll soon find yourself back in the same arguments. Getting out of the cycle of conflict isn't easy, and you don't know what to do. If only you could do something, like buy the perfect gift, or conjure up some perfect funny romantic prank that manages to change everything, like they do in the movies. Through the whole scene you'd have this magic...
Sep 29, 2012
Even the most superficial of today’s “get your ex back” programs recommend that the first thing you need to do is back off, curb your sense of urgency, and take some time to calm down and reflect. There are good reasons for this advice. To begin with, you run the risk of driving your ex away if you push too hard and fast. Next, your heightened emotional state is likely to cause you to say and do the wrong things. And finally, but most importantly, you need to put your emotions in check...
Sep 28, 2012
This is the stage of my program that just might the hardest to do because it still involves, well, doing nothing. This will require self-control and discipline. If you feel you don’t have much in the way of those qualities right now, it’s time to develop them. Now, when I tell you to do nothing, of course I’m only talking about actions that involve your ex -- except for one little action step I'm going to give you in a moment. The purpose of this is so you can free up time and space for...
Sep 27, 2012
I know how you feel, and that your break up has undoubtedly left you with many scars. Before approaching or trying to reconcile any further with your ex, you need to heal yourself first. Yes, this is yet another step where you don’t actually contact your ex nor do much of anything that involves him or her. But at this point you should welcome that, because through this program you’ve come to realize that before you take any action toward your ex, the process of reconciliation requires a number...